Guide Your Student

Parent & Family Roles
The college years are a time of exposure to new ideas and increased knowledge of potential career options. Parents can play an important role in supporting their student through this process. Here are some tips:

Listen
Choosing a major or career path can be overwhelming and students are anxious to have an opportunity to talk about their thoughts. Parents can do this successfully by keeping an open mind and seeing the situation from the student's perspective. Although it may be difficult, avoid giving advice unless asked.

Encourage
Talk about the value of the Gateway Program with your student and encourage them to get involved in the first year. Keep up to date on the programs and workshops offered by Career Services throughout the year and mention to your student those that you think he or she might enjoy and benefit from. Let your student know that you see the value in participating in a variety of activities and courses while at Lafayette.

Inform
You have a wealth of career information available to you through your own experience as well as your personal network of contacts. Talk to your student about your own career development path, even if he or she is considering a career quite different from your own. Connect your student with people you know that can provide career insight and information on internships and full-time jobs.

Partner
Help your student navigate the career exploration process by taking the journey with them, not trying to lead them. Ask open-ended questions to help your student clarify their ideas and goals. Provide positive feedback when your student discusses their career-related activities with you. Above all, let your student know that you trust them to use all the resources available to them to make an informed decision.

Resources for Parents

The Four-Year Parental Guide to the Gateway Program

Articles by NACE
Parents Have Their Say...About Their College-Age Children's Career Decisions
A Career Planning Course for Parents
How Assessment Can Help You Choose a Major or Career

A Parents' Guide to Career Development
A Career Action Plan

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